Friday, January 31, 2014

The Uncooperative Principle

Paul Grice (1913-1988)
Violate a maxim--without damaging a relationship!--and let us know how it went.

3 comments:

  1. I violated the maxim that talks about talking enough in a conversation. It actually not the first time. The only thing that happened is that my boyfriend thought I was mad at him. When I explained the assignment to him, he asked me not to use him for anymore assignments like that. Oops.

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  2. I decided to speak only what is required to communicate needed information. My significant other didn't catch on for a couple hours until dinner time. Then, for about 25 minuets, the conversation was completely lead by them explaining every level of duck hunting expertise that had been acquired over a lifetime. It was then that I cracked. I explained what I had been doing. However, my plan was foiled. He knew that his grotesque hunting stories paired with my vegetarian lifestyle would cause me to speak up and explain whatever I was up to. He assumed it was a stiff cold shoulder remedy.

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  3. I violated the maxim of relation in multiple conversations throughout the long weekend. It was interesting to see the reactions of people I know well versus those that I consider acquaintances. Interestingly enough, the people I knew better were much more likely to point of the rudeness of my actions. To theme I seemed to by trying to change the subject before they were ready, and that I was ruling the conversation. The people I knew less were much more likely to go along with my subject changes, even if I did theme in succession to each other.

    This type of behavior is pretty much what I expected to happen. I am much more sensitive and forgiving to strangers--when it comes to speech--than I am to those I am close to. Now, I may talk about them behind their back or call them dirty names, but I am much less likely to say anything out loud.

    Charlynn Estes

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